@ This file written with the Avid Caption plugin, version 1 10:00:12:16 10:00:15:15 There is no embarrassment... 10:00:15:15 10:00:21:03 ...nothing like that today, about asking a man to go to bed with you, 10:00:21:03 10:00:24:04 or getting in the hot tub with you. 10:00:29:01 10:00:31:23 You know it's not the lads doing it now, it's the girls. 10:00:33:21 10:00:36:00 I mean, it wasn't done when I was young. 10:00:36:23 10:00:40:11 They treated us like ladies, you know. 10:00:40:11 10:00:44:22 I mean, first kiss, first love... 10:00:54:16 10:00:58:05 I remember cutting my mums curtains up to make a dress. 10:01:07:15 10:01:11:22 My mum came, she shouted, where's my curtain. 10:01:19:22 10:01:22:07 And then another time... 10:01:22:07 10:01:23:10 I said to my sister, 10:01:23:10 10:01:26:09 I said, will you lend me a pair of your silk stockings? 10:01:26:09 10:01:28:19 No, she said, I will not. 10:01:29:05 10:01:33:24 So of course I went to the cupboard and got my mums packet of gravy browning... 10:01:33:24 10:01:35:17 ...and put it all over my legs. 10:01:40:10 10:01:44:06 And Tom, that was one of my boyfriends... 10:01:44:21 10:01:47:20 He said to me, what's the matter with your legs? 10:01:47:20 10:01:50:03 You've got all brown stuff.... 10:01:54:24 10:01:57:07 He never asked me out again. 10:02:04:00 10:02:06:03 Oh, my first kiss... 10:02:07:20 10:02:11:20 I think Bill the American was the first one. 10:02:14:06 10:02:18:02 He said, I'm not overstepping the mark am I? 10:02:18:02 10:02:21:20 I said, don't be so soft, I don't mind if you kiss me. 10:02:22:19 10:02:28:03 He kissed me, but at least he didn't put his tongue down my throat. 10:02:33:13 10:02:39:16 Anyway, then Vince, the man I was already betrothed to according to my mum, 10:02:39:16 10:02:41:09 was coming over. 10:02:45:23 10:02:48:03 I'd never met him before. 10:02:48:23 10:02:51:11 I said, hello. He said, hello, can I come in? 10:02:51:11 10:02:54:13 I said, you cannot, I don't know you! 10:02:55:23 10:02:58:24 And my mum says, what you think about Vincent? 10:02:58:24 10:03:01:20 I said, I wouldn't walk on the same side of the street as him! 10:03:07:20 10:03:11:14 Anyway, Vince got his call up papers. 10:03:14:03 10:03:16:10 It was my stepfather, he said, 10:03:16:10 10:03:19:24 well before you go, she better have a ring on her finger. 10:03:19:24 10:03:23:17 I said no. He said yes. You're going to marry that lad. 10:03:24:18 10:03:28:07 And this was the end of all my romances. 10:03:34:19 10:03:37:08 I saw him off on the station. 10:03:39:22 10:03:42:12 He said, oh don't cry, he said, I'll be back. 10:03:42:12 10:03:44:23 How do I know you'll be back? 10:03:46:20 10:03:51:14 But, I think, I think it was then... 10:03:51:23 10:03:54:10 ...that's when I fell in love with him. 10:04:28:22 10:04:32:01 When Vince came home, you know after the war... 10:04:38:20 10:04:40:16 We never had sex. 10:04:40:16 10:04:43:21 He only had to wink, like that, and the next minute, 10:04:43:21 10:04:45:17 oh, I was pregnant. 10:04:46:01 10:04:49:22 And everybody used to say, you're not having another baby are you? 10:04:49:22 10:04:53:21 By golly, I wish we could do that, it would save a lot of trouble. 10:04:58:03 10:05:01:14 We not only had children, I've got two adopted children. 10:05:13:05 10:05:15:18 We never noticed growing old. 10:05:16:12 10:05:19:22 It's as though someone had waved a wand and next minute... 10:05:20:24 10:05:23:01 ...they'd grown up. 10:06:10:15 10:06:11:22 I, I mean... 10:06:11:22 10:06:14:12 ...when Vince died... I... 10:06:17:01 10:06:20:20 Oh, I cried and I cried, it was so funny, 10:06:20:20 10:06:23:02 I mean it wasn't funny really... 10:06:23:17 10:06:24:20 ...because... 10:06:25:10 10:06:29:05 ...he dropped dead at four o'clock on a Sunday afternoon. 10:06:31:07 10:06:34:12 It was the worst day of my life. 10:06:35:05 10:06:37:06 He was a lovely, lovely man. 10:06:37:06 10:06:38:17 He was a saint... 10:06:39:07 10:06:40:20 ...to put up with me. 10:06:59:14 10:07:05:01 When you've had as many kids as me, you've got to make do in life. 10:07:05:01 10:07:09:18 Whatever comes, I will accept, 10:07:09:18 10:07:12:10 and enjoy it.